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		<title>Off on my holidays</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Aug 2011 11:41:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Smith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me – watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me – watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly. The Message Matt 11:28-30</em></p>
<p><b>There is good tired and there’s bad tired, good discontent and bad discontent, good depression and bad depression. </b></p>
<p>“Good tired” comes out of co-operating with the Holy Spirit in the work of God. We work with joy and then get tired. We end the day tired but deeply satisfied. I love days lived like this.</p>
<p>Bad tired is debilitating. It comes from seeing I have too many things to accomplish and it’s all on me to get it done. I am trying to do all this in my own energy and I’m worn out. I really must learn better how to walk daily in dependence, hands open, to the infilling of the Spirit. So it is not my work. It is participating with God in His work.</p>
<p>Good discontent is holy discontent born out of a desire to see God’s Kingdom come. This discontent can be carried with grace. We, in Christ, can speak truth gracefully and leave space for God to work. </p>
<p>Bad discontent however is the rut of always finding things not up to the artificial standards of perfection. It is always unhappy. It kills life if not nipped in the bud. Lord, save me from bad discontent.</p>
<p>Good depression is the deep sadness in giving up those many things which seem so precious but are not essential to God’s mission. David Fitch says:</p>
<blockquote><p>I fear, most pastors never allow themselves to die to their ministry ego markers (whatever they might be) because this requires a good period of depression. As a result, ministries shrivel and churches die.</p>
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<p>Bad depression is the loss of purpose in life and complete despair. It’s a time when physical, mental and spiritual renewal is needed.</p>
<p>So I’m off on holiday tired, discontent and even a little depressed; fortunately, I hope, for good reasons!</p>
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		<title>Building Strong Teams</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Sep 2010 19:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Smith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Some notes from my Bridge training session on Christian Leadership.</p> <p>How can we create a culture in our team of encouragement and honour? How can we grow and develop our team? And how do we handle the disappointments and stresses?</p> Introduction: The vital importance of raising up other leaders <p>Leadership in the New Testament is [...]]]></description>
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<p>How can we create a culture in our team of encouragement and honour? How can we grow and develop our team? And how do we handle the disappointments and stresses?</p>
<h3><b>Introduction: The vital importance of raising up other leaders</b></h3>
<p>Leadership in the New Testament is always a &#8216;plural&#8217; rather than a purely individual enterprise. (Acts 1: 21, Acts 14:23). </p>
<blockquote><p>When someone casts a compelling vision and gets people excited about it, they&#8217;re going to have to build great teams to support that vision. You simply can&#8217;t build a prevailing church unless you build great teams. </p>
<p>Once you decide what type of team you&#8217;re going to build, you look for people&#8217;s experience and passion. You look for people who want to get involved and you challenge them. You try to align people by their own gifts so they are doing a part of the vision that excites them and breathes energy into them. </p>
<p>I have never seen a church reach its full redemptive potential unless there were fired-up people doing the work of God in teams. All Willow Creek really is is a big church made up of thousands of little teams, with leaders, with a focus, with a purpose, and people who are fired up to work together. (Bill Hybels)</p>
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<p>In doing so we are being faithful to the example set by Jesus; much of his own ministry was concerned with the <b>raising up and developing, releasing and equipping</b> of other leaders. (Mark 1:16-20; Luke 6:12-16; 9:1-6; 10:1-20; 24:44-49)</p>
<h3><b>Recruiting a Team</b></h3>
<p>Most teams will not be made up of many (if any) full time paid staff. We only bring in paid staff from &#8216;outside&#8217; if we are completely unable to resource a ministry from within (either because the suitable person cannot be found, or because the suitable person does not have sufficient time to give). </p>
<p>There are many benefits in using those who emerge from within our own church. We need to think creatively about recruiting people for leadership roles. </p>
<p>Types of people we might also recruit: • Early retired • the downwardly mobile • Interns/Gap Year assistants. </p>
<h3><b>Identifying leadership potential </b></h3>
<p>Look in particular for people who:</p>
<p>• Are people of influence; others are affected by them in a positive way;</p>
<p>• Demonstrate character first and skills/gifting second. It is easier to teach skills to a person of character than to change the character of a gifted but awkward person;</p>
<p>• Have a servant heart;</p>
<p>• Love people &#8211; leaders exist for people and not vice versa.</p>
<p>• Danger signs to watch out for</p>
<p>• People who lack grace even though they may be very gifted;</p>
<p>• People who crave position or a role;</p>
<p>• Pushy people;</p>
<p>• Those who do not related well to other people Leaders never lead in the abstract, they lead people!</p>
<blockquote><p>Bill Hybels talks about the importance of the three &quot;C&#8217;s&quot; of team leadership &#8211; <b>Character, Competence and Chemistry</b>.</p>
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<h3><b>The challenges and frustrations of inheriting people whom you would not ideally choose yourself.</b></h3>
<p>Work with them, show them your heart and vision and give them every opportunity to get on board and to grow with it.</p>
<p>Expect God to change some of them and to develop them (cf. Jesus and his own disciples)</p>
<p><b>Easy in: Easy out.</b> Work at helpful ways of letting them go.</p>
<h3><b>The Role of Leader</b></h3>
<p><strong>Key emphases in your own ministry should be:</strong></p>
<p>• <i>Equipping others</i> (which means laying down less essential tasks; particularly difficult for those with a strong people-pleasing tendency!)</p>
<p>• <i>Delegating responsibility with accountability</i> (empowering others). We need to be prepared for some things to be done less well in the short term.</p>
<p>• <i>Encouraging and affirming other leaders</i> (and sorting out your own ownership issues). We must rejoice in the success of others rather than be threatened by it.</p>
<p>• <i>Supervising, overseeing, and managing other leaders and workers</i>. This will include helping them develop vision for their own areas of ministry; working with others to help them set goals; providing regular, appropriate and on-going training for all leaders and potential leaders.</p>
<p>• <i>Celebrate what you want to reproduce.</i></p>
<p>• <i>Raise the bar</i> – people want to take a pride in what they do.</p>
<p>• <i>Engage people with their calling/passion</i>.</p>
<p>• <i>Say thanks, affirm ministry, get stories</i>. People want to be wanted.</p>
<p>• <i>Celebrate milestones.</i></p>
<p>• <i>Say yes whenever possible – refer on finance and staff time</i></p>
<p>• <i>If a horse is dead – dismount!</i></p>
<h3><b>Create a culture of encouragement and honour </b></h3>
<p>Put into your diary one to one meetings with each of the people who are in your team (say every term). At these meetings you can:<b></b></p>
<ul>
<li>Review the progress of the work since your last meeting </li>
<li>Work with them to develop specific vision for their ministry, set goals and objectives, and think and plan strategically for the short and longer term future. </li>
<li>Discuss practical details, resource needs etc to do with their ministry area. In this you are acting as a resource person, but never ever taking back from them overall responsibility for their ministry area. </li>
<li>Encourage, affirm, and support them in the exercise of their responsibility, helping them to reflect on encouraging and challenging situations they have encountered. </li>
<li>Encourage them in their own walk with God and ensure that they are being sustained for the demands of leadership. </li>
<li>Pray with them and for them. </li>
</ul>
<h3><b>Growing and developing the Team</b></h3>
<p>Arrange regular meetings at a time and place which is convenient for everyone. As well as &#8216;practical business&#8217; these meetings should include worship and ministry to one another, mutual accountability for ministry areas, encouragement, visioning etc.</p>
<ul>
<li>Team building events (meals, away days, workforce banquet, etc.) are also vitally important. </li>
<li>Create a culture of talking about the team’s ministry </li>
<li>Give people scope to operate as a team; value contributions, hear from God together </li>
</ul>
<p>Teams function well when there is cultivated an environment of:</p>
<ul>
<li>Trust </li>
<li>Honesty </li>
<li>Vulnerability of leadership </li>
<li>Encouragement and affirmation </li>
<li>Understanding and acceptance of diversity </li>
<li>Generosity and Forgiveness </li>
<li>Clarity of Purpose </li>
<li>Accountability and Support </li>
<li>Fun </li>
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		<title>Some more on the Kingdom</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 12:36:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Smith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I’m challenged by what Ian Parkinson writes about leadership development in the context of transforming communities:</p> <p>If we have vision to [1] see our own churches grow and above all to [2] grow in influence as agents of community transformation, then these are the two things which need to become our consuming passions. It’s the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’m challenged by what Ian Parkinson writes about leadership development in the context of transforming communities:</p>
<blockquote><p>If we have vision to [1] see our own churches grow and above all to [2] grow in influence as agents of community transformation, then these are the two things which need to become our consuming passions. It’s the second one we often find it easiest to neglect, usually because it is time-consuming and costly, because the return on the investment of our time and energies is not immediate and because it gets pushed to one side by more urgent, though less strategic, demands. </p>
<p>On the back of my study door, deliberately printed in very large type so I have to read it as the last thing I do as I leave the room, I have fixed these words from Martin Robinson’s book ‘Invading Secular Space’:</p>
<p><i>“It is an inviolable rule; you can expand and extend the Gospel only as far as you</i><i> prepare others to take the responsibility with you.”</i></p>
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<p>Extending the scope of the influence of the Kingdom is largely determined by how serious we are about raising up others. This is exactly what Jesus did of course. </p>
<p>Parkinson goes on to outline four principles from Jesus’ ministry in raising up others:</p>
<blockquote><p><b><i>1. </i></b><b><i>He set before them a vision of what they might become</i></b></p>
<p>His initial invitation to the fishermen was not vague nor was it qualified. In language they would instantly understand he <strong>sows in their hearts and minds a vision of becoming significant in the purposes of God</strong>, of catching not fish but people for God. What’s more, implicit in the invitation is a promise that he would make them more than they could ever be if left to their own devices.</p>
<p>Developing others begins by allowing God to let us see people through his eyes, and thus to discern those whom he is specifically calling. He might well surprise us as he is far better than we are at identifying leadership potential! <strong>We should especially be on the lookout for those who instantly respond with excitement when they have imparted to them a vision for the Kingdom of God. We need to pour fuel onto the flame of such enthusiasm</strong> and we need always to set before such people the hope of what they might become in the hands of Jesus and in the power of His Spirit.</p>
<p><b><i>2. He let them see ministry taking place</i></b></p>
<p><strong>For many years, I have always refused to take on any new ministry personally without first identifying someone else who will accompany me in it and who might, in due course, take over responsibility for it from me.</strong> I want to expose as many people as possible to the realities of ministry in the power of the Spirit and to whet their own appetite for involvement. From the very beginning, the newly-called disciples of Jesus journey with him and have their minds blown away as they see the realities of the Kingdom of God. It seems to me that we need a very good reason indeed to engage in any ministry responsibility completely on our own; we should always be seeking to take someone along with us and increasingly give away to them responsibility for such ministry.</p>
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<p><b><i>3. He reflected with them on what they had seen</i></b></p>
<p>Jesus is frequently reported in the Gospels as spending time alone with his inner circle, and often is called upon to explain and interpret the things they have seen. <strong>One of the most valuable things we can do as leaders is give time to reflect with emerging leaders on what they have witnessed and on what they have done</strong> (helping them develop strengths and work through weaknesses). </p>
<p><b><i>4. He released them into ministry</i></b></p>
<p>… Jesus took [enormous risk] in stepping back and <strong>allowing a group of untried, though enthusiastic, novices to go out in his place</strong>. I imagine they fouled up from time to time, and they certainly were not the finished article. Nevertheless, overnight Jesus’ ministry was multiplied six fold, and this unpromising band of nobodies went on to kick-start the greatest spiritual revolution the world has ever seen, overwhelming the mighty Roman Empire within the space of a few generations. </p>
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		<title>The tales of two women</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2009 21:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Smith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>On Sunday, Andrew spoke at our healing service about the woman who was healed when she touched Jesus’ coat (Mark 5:21-43).  Jesus, Andrew reminded us, sees us as individuals. Contrast that with crowd in the story.  We are individuals to Jesus: Jairus, his daughter, the woman, the few disciples allowed in to witness the raising [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Sunday, Andrew spoke at our healing service about the woman who was healed when she touched Jesus’ coat (Mark 5:21-43).  Jesus, Andrew reminded us, sees us as individuals. Contrast that with crowd in the story.  We are individuals to Jesus: Jairus, his daughter, the woman, the few disciples allowed in to witness the raising from the dead miracle, the girl&#8217;s parents. Even, at the end, he wanted to make sure daughter was fed.</p>
<p>According to the ceremonial law, the touch of anyone having the disease which this woman had would have defiled the person touched. Some think that this may account for her approaching Him from behind, and touching his cloak. But more likely, her unseen approach, rather than avoiding contact with Jesus, was simply to avoid being noticed by him. It was an act of faith.</p>
<p>More importantly in my view, she instinctively knew, by the same faith, that if her touch could set her free from the disease itself, it was impossible that it would also defile him.  This most wondrous Healer must be above such laws. Whilst she was full of confidence that Jesus was <em>able</em> to heal: she trembled on account of her unworthiness (v33), thus illustrating the humility and confidence of a sinner coming to God for pardon and life. Acts 5:5 and 19:5 pick up the same point too.</p>
<p>At much the same time time, I’ve been thinking about the women who meets Jesus at the house of Simon the Pharisee. Another woman who approached Jesus from behind.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven -for she loved much. But he who has been forgiven little loves little.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
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<p>The Pharisees had embraced a non-loving, legalistic lifestyle; they had become obsessed with the small print and missed the headlines.  Jesus, on the other hand, overruled the judgementalism that pushed this sinful but precious woman to the point of exclusion.</p>
<p>As Mike Wood suggests (<em>Leading the Jesus Way: Church Leadership and Managing Your Life</em>):</p>
<blockquote><p>He valued her. He affirmed her. He protected her against humiliation. He accepted her act of love and devotion. [Her worship] was pure to Him although questionable in the eyes of others. It showed deep devotion. He received the adoration and worship of this broken and contrite woman. She received forgiveness. She was accepted. She had found a place where she belonged. She was saved.</p></blockquote>
<p>Often in these days I have discovered in my conversations with others that those who have sinned much and have received forgiveness, healing and peace will celebrate the most. For them there has been a wonderful, brand new, fresh start.</p>
<p>What a testimony this woman had. She loved deeply. Her love was wonderful but was not the basis on which she received forgiveness. That was her faith (v50). Forgiveness is all about grace. It is unearned. It is undeserved.</p>
<p>However, as Mike Wood helpfully points out there are some good leadership principles at work here too:</p>
<p>1. Leaders will seek first the kingdom of God. Even in situations like this of conviviality. Leaders are always alert to the opportunity to say, &#8220;Yes&#8221; and welcome seekers into the family of God. Some of the most unlikely and surprising people make amazing Christians, especially those who have been forgiven much.</p>
<p>2. Jesus could handle the situation wisely and well. He did so with courage and style. He urges us to be strong but bold in our reaching out to the damaged.</p>
<p>3, Sometimes we can feel that the joy of our salvation is diminishing because of the pressures of leadership. Nothing restores it more than to be involved in seeing a sinner saved, rescued, healed, restored, forgiven and baptised. (Psalm 51:12)</p>
<p>4. It is great to be part of a fellowship where we can hug one another. So much is communicated in a warm hug. It is marvellous to exchange greetings with family affection. &#8220;Greet all the brothers with a holy kiss&#8221; (1 Thess 5:25).</p>
<p>5. Yet, leaders need to be very careful about our relationships with the opposite sex. This story was set in a very public place. If something similar had happened in private it would have been dangerous.</p>
<p>6. The devil wants to take something as wonderful as love and twist and distort it into lust. If he cannot stop love from flowing in a commu­nity, he will often change tactics and instead of resisting love, he will get behind it and push it into that which is exaggerated, distorted and not appropriate. We need the daily infilling of the Holy Spirit to put to death the things of the flesh and to live a pure and holy life. It is best to be strict and disciplined and to know the power of the fruit of the Spirit, especially self-control.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings&#8221; (1 Pet 5:8,9).</p></blockquote>
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		<title>First impressions</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 22:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Smith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Despite my bleak contribution to Simon Jones’ excellent critic of “attractional” mission, I have (in time for Back to Church Sunday) been thinking about enhancing our welcoming and stewarding.</p> <p>To that end I’ve dipped into First Impressions by Mark Waltz. Waltz argues that guests to church services want, when they arrive, to know two things [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Despite my bleak contribution to <a href="http://bromleyboy.blogspot.com/2009/09/were-just-not-that-attractive.html">Simon Jones’</a> excellent critic of “attractional” mission, I have (in time for <em>Back to Church Sunday) </em>been thinking about enhancing our welcoming and stewarding.</p>
<p>To that end I’ve dipped into <em>First Impressions </em>by Mark Waltz.  Waltz argues that guests to church services want, when they arrive, to know two things from those they first meet: (1) <em>Show me</em> that you care about me and (2) <em>Tell me</em> what you what you are going to do for me <u>now</u>.  Which should sum up the whole role of those welcoming and stewarding</p>
<p>Stewards, <i>oikonomos</i> (1 Peter 4.10) are, as I pointed out to our team, “house managers” or “overseers,” one who is entrusted with the care of something belonging to someone else.</p>
<blockquote><p>Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God&#8217;s grace in its various forms</p>
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<p>Peter is telling us that stewards are to unselfishly serve others with the diverse gifts that God has freely bestowed on them in a manner that will please and glorify God</p>
<p>Waltz suggests that churches need to build a WOW factor into those first few moments of encounter.  He says that before the service has even started most first timers have already decided whether to come again.</p>
<p><a name='more'></a>For those concerned about attractional mission, this is a key point.  The sermon begins in the car park. First impressions need to the best impressions.</p>
<p>So I recently came across these ministry descriptions from a church clearly committed to ensuring that those who manage to bridge the cultural hurdle of turning up to Sunday services at least are still on board when the worship starts:</p>
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<blockquote><p><b><i>Do you want to make a difference in our church?</i></b>  </p>
<p><b><i>&#8220;</i></b><b><i>People Matter</i></b><b><i>”</i></b>  </p>
<p><b><i>When we welcome newcomers to church we are demonstrating the gracious love and care of God Himself.</i></b>  </p>
<p><strong><em></em></strong>  </p>
<p><i>It has been proven that the sermon starts in the car parking.  The first ten minutes of a guest’s experience on Sunday morning matters most.   </i> </p>
<p><i></i>  </p>
<p><i>Our goal for our </i><b>“</b><b>First Impressions Team</b><b>”</b><b><i> </i></b><i>is:  <b>“To do anything and everything to help our guests see Christ.  We want to greet them with unconditional acceptance and respect that makes them feel welcomed at … .  We want to give guests WOW moments”</b></i>  </p>
<p><i></i>  </p>
<p><i>This is a great place to get plugged into ministry as it takes so many people to make it run smoothly.  <b>If you like a smile, and can give one, you are needed!</b></i>  </p>
<p><b><i></i></b><b><i></i></b><b><i></i></b>  </p>
<p><b><i>Areas of Ministry Available:</i></b>  </p>
<p><b>Car Park Team:  </b>The Car Park Team assists with the traffic flow in any weather condition, must enjoy working outside, and be able to present a positive image as well as  assist the elderly or the disabled with Parking and church entry.  </p>
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<p><b>Welcomer Te</b><b>am:  </b>The Welcomer is responsible to ensure that every person entering the church is greeted and that guests are offered assistance as appropriate so that everyone feels important and welcome.   </p>
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<p><b>Information Team:  </b>The Team will display a gracious, friendly attitude in showing guests the church facilities and answering questions regarding the facilities and ministries of the church.  This team will portray the church in a positive image and help guests feel welcome.  </p>
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<p><b>Coffee Team  </b>Do you like a coffee shop environment?  This could be the perfect place for you to volunteer.  We’re looking for sharp, friendly and energetic people to help out.  We are not a Starbucks but we brew fresh coffee and have hot chocolate, teas, muffins and bottled water available.  </p>
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<p><b>Steward Team:  </b>The Steward Team will regularly participate in worship services and will assist with overall operation of the church facilities.  They will welcome, direct and seat guests and others as needed, as well as collect the offerings. </p>
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		<title>Prophey and Strategy</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Smith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been impressed for many years with the wise advice that Mike Bickle gives from his experience of having an upsurge of the prophetic in his church. In particularly he addresses the relationship between the prophetic and church leadership. Growing in the Prophetic is still available.</p> <p>My good friend Mike Betts reflects on a similar [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been impressed for many years with the wise advice that Mike Bickle gives from his experience of having an upsurge of the prophetic in his church. In particularly he addresses the relationship between the prophetic and church leadership.  <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Growing-Prophetic-Practical-Biblical-Spiritual/dp/1599793121">Growing in the Prophetic</a> is still available.</p>
<p>My good friend Mike Betts reflects on a similar issue in Leadership Link:<br />
<blockquote>In our leadership team and church we make room for prophetic ministry to come in shaping programs and individual ministries. We seek to weigh and discern God’s voice then once we feel we have heard the heart of God we implement it practically:
<ul>
<li>Prayer meeting agendas are shaped by the prophetic.</li>
<li>Leadership goals and objectives are shaped according to the prophetic. For example if God has spoken about us having a new building we need to go and look for one.</li>
<li> Staff and budgets are apportioned in line with the things God has said</li>
<li>We cast vision in the church to ensure everyone continues to serve the same vision.</li>
</ul>
<p>We feedback to prophetic ministry to both encourage and to keep our ears open to fresh instruction from God.</p>
<p>When apostles and prophets work together the most powerful and strategically vibrant leadership combination is possible. Prophets to show the way and Apostles to build like wise master builders. In reading the New Testament it seems that is how God intends the local church to function.</p>
<p>Genuine prophecies should not get filed under ‘P’ in someone’s filing cabinet. They are living working documents to build to.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Follow the leader</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 16:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Smith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m putting together something on good leadership for our Rock Solid group of teenagers. Here are my images and and a few thoughts:Funny: Great leaders know how to use humor to energise followers. Humour is a form of power that provides some control over our circumstances. We see things differently! Loosely and lightly. Simply put, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m putting together something on good leadership for our Rock Solid group of teenagers. Here are my images and and a few thoughts:<br /><a href="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/funny.jpg"><img src="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/funny.jpg?w=300" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Funny:</span> Great leaders know how to use humor to energise followers. Humour is a form of power that provides some control over our circumstances. We see things differently! Loosely and lightly. Simply put, great humour fosters great teams.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;">We often don&#8217;t think of Jesus as being funny.  Sure he was!</span>  <span style="font-style:italic;">What else is the joy of the Lord!</span></p>
<p><a href="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/assertive.png"><img src="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/assertive.png?w=300" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Assertive: </span>Being assertive is not the same as being aggressive. Great leaders can clearly state what is expected in their team so that there will be no misunderstandings. Along with assertiveness comes the <span style="font-style:italic;">responsibility</span> to clearly understand what followers expect from their leader.  Getting the right amount of assertiveness is a key to great leadership.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;">Jesus was very clear with people when he needed to be.  Especially in times of conflict and tension with Pharisees and the Romans.</span> <span style="font-style:italic;"> His directions to the disciples were explicit.  This is my command&#8230;.  This is how you do it.</span>&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/fair.png"><img src="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/fair.png?w=300" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Fairness:</span> Dealing with others consistently and justly make great leadership. A leader needs to check all the facts and hear everyone out before passing judgment. He or she avoids leaping to conclusions based on incomplete evidence. When people feel they that are being treated fairly, they respond with loyalty and dedication.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;">I love the way Jesus deals with people.  Especially those who would be outcast or despised.  He hears their story.  Points out the hypocrisy of the others.  Turns the matter on its head.  And starts people off afresh.</span></p>
<p><a href="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/creative.png"><img src="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/creative.png?w=300" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Creativity:  </span>Great leaders think differently, they get outside of the box.  Great leaders see things that others have not seen and lead teams in new directions. The most important question that a leader can ask is, “What if … ?”</p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;">The Kingdom of God is thinking outside the box on a cosmic scale.  Jesus wasn&#8217;t a freedom fighter for 1st century nationalistic Jews.  He was a freedom fighter for all creation.  His &#8220;what if&#8221; is &#8220;what if the whole of the universe can be transformed&#8221;</span></p>
<p><a href="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/open.png"><img src="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/open.png?w=300" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Openness:</span> Great leaders listen to new ideas, even if they do not conform to the usual way of thinking. They suspend judgment while listening to others’ ideas, as well as accept new ways of doing things that someone else thought of. Openness builds mutual respect and trust between leaders and their team.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;">Jesus modeled a new way of living for the disciples. He showed them his heart and life.  And they learned from his openness.</span></p>
<p><a href="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/humble.png"><img src="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/humble.png?w=300" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Humility:</span> Great leaders are humble. They know they are no better or worse than other members of the team. A humble leader tries to elevate everyone and knows that their status does not make them any more special that anyone else.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;">Washing feet.  Say no more.</span></p>
<p><a href="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/integity.png"><img src="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/integity.png?w=300" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Integrity: </span>Great leaders have consistency between their outward actions and inner values. They are the same on the outside and on the inside. A good leader can be trusted because he or she never veers from their inner values, even when it might be expeditious to do so. Others trust a great leader.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;">Jesus was totally consistent.  Inconsistency is a sin.  What he said is what he did.  &#8220;Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one&#8217;s life for one&#8217;s friends.&#8221; is what he taught and did.</span></p>
<p><a href="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/hearted.jpg"><img src="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/hearted.jpg?w=300" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Big-hearted:</span> Great leaders give credit where it is due. They ensures that credit for successes is spread as widely as possible throughout the team. And a good leader takes personal responsibility for failures. To spread the fame and take the blame is a hallmark of effective leadership.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;">I like the way that Jesus affirms the disciples when they come back from their mission trips.  He did a pretty good job of spreading the fame of God and taking our blame too.</span></p>
<p><a href="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/engaged.png"><img src="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/engaged.png?w=300" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Engaged:</span> Great leaders give whatever time or energy is necessary to accomplish the task at hand.  They inspire dedication by example, doing whatever it takes to complete the next step toward the vision. By setting an excellent example, leaders can show the team that they can all achieve something great.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;">I cannot think of anything which the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">disciples</span> did that Jesus hadn&#8217;t done!  Except for baptising people.  That&#8217;s not bad!</span></p>
<p><a href="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/vision.jpg"><img src="http://hollidaysjohn.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/vision.jpg?w=300" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Visionary: </span>Great leaders know where they are going.  They have a clear, vivid picture of where to go, as well as a firm grasp on what success looks like and how to achieve it. But it’s not enough to have a vision; leaders must also share it and act upon it. &#8220;Good leaders create a vision, articulate the vision, passionately own the vision and relentlessly drive it to completion.&#8221;</p>
<p>A great leader can communicate his or her vision in ways that means others commit to it too. He or she can communicate clearly and passionately. Passion is contagious.</p>
<p>A good leader has the discipline to work toward his or her vision single-<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">mindedly</span>, as well as to direct his or her actions and those of the team toward the goal. They are passionate about the the vision and inspire others to be the same.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;">Jesus, as if often remarked, asked questions and told stories.  And the stories inspired people to see the world differently.  But he wasn&#8217;t just a wise sage.  He turned<br />
his face to <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Jerusalem</span> and with determination walked to his death.</span></p>
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